Society of Nepal

Nepal’s location between India and china, the combined influence of Hinduism and Buddhism, and its diversity of ethnic groups have resulted in a complex blend of costumes and beliefs.

All the centre of Nepali life is the family and the practice of customs associated with one’s ethnic group are non-negotiable. To break these rules is to risk being isolated from one’s family and community. While young Nepali people, especially in urban areas are being influenced by western values and practices, the vast majority of people live by traditional customs and practices. In the most ethnic group, joint and extended families live in the same house or share several homes. In smaller villages extended families make up their entire community. Growing and Harvesting food is the main focus of village life and everyone helps out.

Children are much loved and are important part of family. Not to have children is almost unheard of and a Nepali woman will pity if you are childless. Children are entertainment, and extra set of hand for the farm and someone to look after you as you grow older.

Arranged marriage remains the normal although there are growing numbers of love marriages. There are several ways marriages can be arranged. A family will either have one person already chosen or a selection of suitable men will be presented and the girl may choose her husband. Child marriages have been illegal since 1963. Today the average age of marriage for girls is just 19 years old. Family connections generated by marriage are important consideration and marriages between ethnic groups are rare.

Having a son is still an important achievements within marriage, especially for Hindu families, where there are religious rites that can only be performed by the eldest son. Girls are regarded by some groups as a burden who will not earn an income to support her elders and needs to be married off.

Older people are respected members of the community and are cared for by their children. Old age is a time for relaxation, prayer and meditation.